im honestly getting so annoyed with these wedding registry sites. we are getting married in chicago this october and we live in a tiny one bedroom apartment so my logic was why would i ask for a toaster or a vacuum when i literally have zero storage space? we really just need help with a down payment for a house next year but every site i look at makes it so difficult to just ask for cash. i was looking at the knot and zola but their fees are just ridiculous and it feels like a total ripoff to lose three percent of a gift just because someone used a credit card. then i tried setting up a honeymoon fund on a different site but it looked so tacky and was forcing me to pick specific activities like a spa day when i just want the flexibility of the money. its honestly so frustrating because i want it to look nice for the guests but i dont want to get scammed by platform fees or have my grandma confused by a clunky interface. i looked into honeyfund too but the website feels so outdated and i dont know if i trust it. has anyone found a registry that actually focuses on cash funds without it being a huge headache or a total money grab? i just want something clean and simple that doesnt take a massive cut...