I've been using Amazon wishlists for years now for all my family stuff but lately I'm getting really paranoid about the privacy settings. I'm helping my sister set up a registry for her new place in Seattle but she's had some issues with an ex and we really don't want any location data leaking out. Even with the third party shipping toggle off Amazon still seems to leak the city and state during the checkout process which is a huge dealbreaker.
I've looked at a few alternatives:
Do these third-party platforms actually offer better metadata masking or is it just the same API issues under a different skin...
Yeah the first reply is spot on... Amazon is a disaster for privacy. Just saw this thread and wanted to add a few things to keep your sister safe. Be careful with MyRegistry because it usually just links back to the store where the leak happens anyway.
Regarding what #1 said about "i have been down this rabbit hole so..." - it really is a tricky process to get right. I had a similar situation when I moved and spent way too much time testing different setups. I used one site thinking it was solid but then realized it just redirected people to the store where my city was visible anyway. It was a big learning curve for me. To summarize, the consensus is that Amazon is pretty leaky and MyRegistry is basically just a middleman for links. If privacy is the goal, you need a platform that acts as a buffer between the buyer and the store. My current setup involves some service fees, but it works way better for masking metadata. Maybe look at Share Product for ideas on how to set that up. TL;DR: Standard lists usually leak data at checkout. Use a proxy service to keep the address totally hidden.
i have been down this rabbit hole so many times and honestly you are 100 percent right to be paranoid. Amazon is absolute garbage when it comes to keeping that city and state info hidden. It is seriously frustrating and i have seen it happen way too often... it is like they dont even care about privacy. I have used a bunch of different platforms over the last decade for various family events and the difference is night and day! If privacy is your top priority because of that situation you definitely need to ditch the standard Amazon list immediately. Here is what i have found from my experience: